After reading the email from Jane, my initial thought was the message was a bit passive aggressive to state how my work is holding up her work with no consideration of my timeline of availability.
Listening to the phone call, the message was softened by the inflection of her voice, though, I still felt as though I was being pressed to complete my work.
The face to face conversation allowed me to understand her need for me to complete my job as she did not express any passive aggressive tone, nor show facial expression or stance in pressing me to get my part done beyond her simple request.
A few factors to consider with the three modalities of communications was how I was feeling when I received them. I had a long busy day and was very tired when I sat down to complete the exercise. This set my inner dialogue tone to be on the offense when I first read the email. The phone call did not help much more but did soften the message for interpretation. Face to face conversation made the biggest impact of understanding as I was able to pick up other cues to the real message of her just needing my help.
This activity allowed me the experience of seeing how impactful a face to face conversation can truly be on a project. Stok (2020) stated in an article of how “communication in person is crucial for clarity and full understanding.” This is very evident as it allows for the tone, body language and other nonverbal cues to communicate the message. According to Rampton (2020), email may not be as persuasive as talking to someone face to face as it lacks the personal connection one experiences. When we are face to face with someone, we tend to fall into a more polite tone with other cues to show our concerns and needs. An email is not personal connections or other cues to see the real implications beyond how the reader is feeling at the moment.
References:
Stok, G. (2020). Face-to-Face Conversation Is Important for Success. Retrieved 28 September 2020, from https://toughnickel.com/business/How-to-Have-a-Meaningful-Face-to-Face-Conversation
Rampton, J. (2020). Email Is Great But Face-to-Face Meetings Are 34 Times More Successful. Retrieved 28 September 2020, from https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/296590